Audiences
Who it is for: dating by stage of life
Not everybody arrives at the same place for the same reason. A twenty-two year old and a divorced parent of forty-two have two entirely different problems, and two different answers.
For women
A quiet inbox, protected location, and blocking that holds.
Read moreFor men
Why there are no replies, and what changes it.
Read moreDating over 30
When you know what you want and time is expensive.
Read moreDating over 50
Coming back to it after a long time, without pressure.
Read moreAfter divorce
Starting again with children and a calendar.
Read moreSingle parents
When every free evening has to be arranged first.
Read moreFor introverts
When the hard part is starting, not the conversation.
Read moreLGBTQ dating
Privacy that is a condition, not a convenience.
Read moreWhy this is organised by audience, not by feature
It is easy to write a page for every feature in a product, and it usually helps nobody. Somebody looking for a dating service does not ask "which feature do I need", they ask "is this for somebody like me".
So the pages here are organised by who you are rather than by what is in the app. The same features appear in all of them; what changes is the explanation of why they matter to you specifically.
And what they all share
Three things recur on every page here, because they genuinely matter to every audience: nobody can message you without your approval, your exact location is never revealed, and there is no monthly subscription.
What changes between audiences is which of the three matters most. For anybody suffering message flooding, the first is critical. For anybody living somewhere small, the second. And for anybody on a tight budget, the third.
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