A request, not a message
One opening line, and you decide whether a chat opens.
Chat
A dating chat you can open without dreading what is inside
A typical dating inbox is two things at once: a place where good things happen, and a place that is exhausting to open. The second is the result of one design decision, and it can be reversed.
The problem: an inbox nobody asked for
In most services, anybody can message anybody. The result is entirely predictable: some users get dozens of messages a day and learn not to open the inbox, and others send dozens and get no reply.
That flooding lands almost always on the same group of people, and it is the leading reason people leave dating apps. It is not a side effect, it is a direct consequence of the model.
No filter, no ranking and no mute button fixes it, because the problem is not the quality of the messages but the volume.
How a chat opens on TOKME
Nobody can send you a message. What they can send is one contact request carrying one opening line, and you decide what to do with it: accept, decline, or decline and block.
Only if you accept does a chat open, and from that moment the conversation is unlimited and free. You can send text, photographs and video, including a photograph set to be viewed once.
From inside the chat you can move to a voice or video call with one tap, without handing over a phone number. That is the step that actually moves something forward.
A block that stays blocked
Blocking hides both sides from each other permanently, search included. The blocked person does not merely stop receiving replies, they stop seeing that you exist.
It works after a conversation has opened, and during a video call. Every profile, chat and call carries report and block controls.
Reporting a user blocks them from you immediately and automatically, before anybody on the team has opened the report. You are protected from the moment you report, not from the moment it is reviewed.
What is different here
Then unlimited
Once the chat is open, messages are free and unlimited.
Reporting blocks instantly
The protection applies before review, not after it.
Frequently asked questions
Can people message me without my approval?
No. Every approach starts as one contact request with an opening line, and only your acceptance opens a chat.
What does opening a chat cost?
The sender pays one credit for the request. If you accept, one credit is taken from each side when the chat opens. After that messages are unlimited and free.
Can I send photos and video in the chat?
Yes, including a photograph set to be viewed once. All media is screened automatically before it is stored.
What happens when I block somebody?
Both sides disappear from each other permanently, search included. It works after a conversation has already opened.
The app is almost here. Want to know when?
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